確定方向，然後在不穩定與不安中成長
"when the silence envelops you, then your soul can sing"
"愛情需要緣份和感動 而幸福則需要勇氣和冒險"
"深深的話，要淺淺的說"(張懸 親愛的)..."但要用力的聽與努力的做"(J)
from Eden
依賴，並非耍賴。自在，也不是隨便。越是親近的人，越容易受傷。
選擇的結果並不可怕，可怕的是選擇之前的恐懼，讓人卻步不前。
想在一個讓自己安穩的懷裡停下來
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感同身受. Merci!
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Sunday, February 28, 2010
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Realise ...
Realise that communication is more about what the other person is hearing than the words that I am saying.
Feelings are more important than words.
Connecting is more important than solving.
A real apology , establish a foundation for recouncilation not only in the moment but for the future.
We didn't listen to each other's core fear.
It 's not about winning or losing anymore.
I shall lace my apologies with gentleness.
More importantly, I choose to let it go and trust God to make it up for me.
I am learning to let go of te hurts and pains of the past. Don't let bitterness take root in my life.
I can't do anything about the past, but I can do something about the future.
I am forgiving him for my sake.
Letting go of those wrong's he 's done to me.
Leaving it up to God, take the high road and respond with love.
I don't have to fix everything that happens to me. I don't have to get all upset and try to pay him back for what he did or didn't do. I don't have to get worried or try to manipulate the situation.
I try God to bring justive in His timing, not ours.
God will make my wrongs right.
Amen.
Feelings are more important than words.
Connecting is more important than solving.
A real apology , establish a foundation for recouncilation not only in the moment but for the future.
We didn't listen to each other's core fear.
It 's not about winning or losing anymore.
I shall lace my apologies with gentleness.
More importantly, I choose to let it go and trust God to make it up for me.
I am learning to let go of te hurts and pains of the past. Don't let bitterness take root in my life.
I can't do anything about the past, but I can do something about the future.
I am forgiving him for my sake.
Letting go of those wrong's he 's done to me.
Leaving it up to God, take the high road and respond with love.
I don't have to fix everything that happens to me. I don't have to get all upset and try to pay him back for what he did or didn't do. I don't have to get worried or try to manipulate the situation.
I try God to bring justive in His timing, not ours.
God will make my wrongs right.
Amen.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Boleh-land Kini
Today it's an odd post of mine talking about Politics.
I think it's really a time for those who always want to keep their hands clean of these to ponder about their attitude towards the issue.
We are part of it. No matter what.
We must be a thinker for country, the community and society that we are living in. I am not saying that we must be rebellious , but think and digest the decision that we make and are made to make.Yes, a follower is an convenient way, as less troubles we are getting in. However, in a democratic country, who are the boss? Who are the master? The people or the government?
The parties that we elect should be able to voice out the people's needs and lead the people towards a better future.
Now, the parties that we erect love to seal our mouth the power and "weapons" that we endorse them and lead their parties towards a better future.
Wake -up , people! In order to march ourselves towards a better future, we must take action!
Shut -up , you party-speaking people! If you can't speak like a man, just shut-up and don't embarrass us by talking like a retard!
How should a leader behave when the people are not satisfied?
Shouldn't you listen up?
It's just a march. A peaceful march.
Man, they are not bringing any weapons, bomb, knife , fire , gun etc to see you.
Just their mouth. Walk in peace. Maybe bringing in a bit of traffic jam.
They are not terrorist, nor riot.
What are you so frightened of?
If you are a justiced Government, why do you wanna twist and turn and beat the bush while facing the media? Why no local papers cover the news? What are there you wanna conceal ?
Perfectionist doesn't make a great man. Great men are those who admit their mistakes and correct their mistakes, in no time! What makes confession so hard? Is it because of the "face " thing? What's more practical and realistic?
I think this applies to the Government too." We can't be perfect, we can't satisfy everyone's requests. " Yes , we can't , but as we work harder , bit by bit, step by step, we'll improve! That' the point! But did you ever try ? Maybe yes, satisfying the greed and lust within those special VIPs.
Face really so important meh? Jaga muka tapi tak jaga maruah/ badan.
Boleh? What are we so capable of? capable of hiding our head into the sand like the ostrich? capable of fantasizing ourselves to be part of the outerspace while people are suffering from poverty?
We are so short-sighted as we only focus on the "one-moment" glory thing. After that one moment, what are we? Nothing but a joker to the outsiders!
Repent your sin and turn to the people!
Otherwise, people will leave you for a better future. And let those rats ruin your body.
People, don't believe what you see on one side. The local papers, the internet, the blogs, etc.
In order to see the whole picture of it, we must not focus on the same angle/ same view.
This is what they show us.
This is the whole picture .
Get it?
I think it's really a time for those who always want to keep their hands clean of these to ponder about their attitude towards the issue.
We are part of it. No matter what.
We must be a thinker for country, the community and society that we are living in. I am not saying that we must be rebellious , but think and digest the decision that we make and are made to make.Yes, a follower is an convenient way, as less troubles we are getting in. However, in a democratic country, who are the boss? Who are the master? The people or the government?
The parties that we elect should be able to voice out the people's needs and lead the people towards a better future.
Now, the parties that we erect love to seal our mouth the power and "weapons" that we endorse them and lead their parties towards a better future.
Wake -up , people! In order to march ourselves towards a better future, we must take action!
Shut -up , you party-speaking people! If you can't speak like a man, just shut-up and don't embarrass us by talking like a retard!
How should a leader behave when the people are not satisfied?
Shouldn't you listen up?
It's just a march. A peaceful march.
Man, they are not bringing any weapons, bomb, knife , fire , gun etc to see you.
Just their mouth. Walk in peace. Maybe bringing in a bit of traffic jam.
They are not terrorist, nor riot.
What are you so frightened of?
If you are a justiced Government, why do you wanna twist and turn and beat the bush while facing the media? Why no local papers cover the news? What are there you wanna conceal ?
Perfectionist doesn't make a great man. Great men are those who admit their mistakes and correct their mistakes, in no time! What makes confession so hard? Is it because of the "face " thing? What's more practical and realistic?
I think this applies to the Government too." We can't be perfect, we can't satisfy everyone's requests. " Yes , we can't , but as we work harder , bit by bit, step by step, we'll improve! That' the point! But did you ever try ? Maybe yes, satisfying the greed and lust within those special VIPs.
Face really so important meh? Jaga muka tapi tak jaga maruah/ badan.
Boleh? What are we so capable of? capable of hiding our head into the sand like the ostrich? capable of fantasizing ourselves to be part of the outerspace while people are suffering from poverty?
We are so short-sighted as we only focus on the "one-moment" glory thing. After that one moment, what are we? Nothing but a joker to the outsiders!
Repent your sin and turn to the people!
Otherwise, people will leave you for a better future. And let those rats ruin your body.
People, don't believe what you see on one side. The local papers, the internet, the blogs, etc.
In order to see the whole picture of it, we must not focus on the same angle/ same view.
This is what they show us.
This is the whole picture .Get it?
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