“一个人即使没有钱，也可以给人七样东西：

一、颜施，即微笑处事。

二、言施，多说鼓励赞美和安慰的话。

三、心施，敞开心扉对人诚恳。

四、眼施，给人善意的眼光。

五、身施，用行动帮助别人。

六、座施，即谦让座位。

七、房施，有容人之心。

有这七种布施，任何人都将不会困苦，好运一定相随。”
~~陈庐一

Realise ...

Realise that communication is more about what the other person is hearing than the words that I am saying.
Feelings are more important than words.
Connecting is more important than solving.
A real apology , establish a foundation for recouncilation not only in the moment but for the future.

We didn't listen to each other's core fear.

It 's not about winning or losing anymore.

I shall lace my apologies with gentleness.

More importantly, I choose to let it go and trust God to make it up for me.

I am learning to let go of te hurts and pains of the past. Don't let bitterness take root in my life.

I can't do anything about the past, but I can do something about the future.

I am forgiving him for my sake.

Letting go of those wrong's he 's done to me.

Leaving it up to God, take the high road and respond with love.

I don't have to fix everything that happens to me. I don't have to get all upset and try to pay him back for what he did or didn't do. I don't have to get worried or try to manipulate the situation.

I try God to bring justive in His timing, not ours.

God will make my wrongs right.

Amen.

cheer- fish

Course night 2009 -- The mark of the ending of my 5 year degree

Went to prom .

Many things flashed through my mind.

The slides presentation did not really make me move.

Maybe there 's not much of my memories here.

I am not a somebody here.

5 years ....

Is a long way... not too far away....

Friendship comes and goes.
It's up to us to maintain the relationship.
Nothing last forever, except the love of God.
Most importantly,
I hope that I will not lose myself again
In whichever path that God lead me to
To discover what really lies in me

It's not how much I earn
It's not how well I am
It's not how smart I am
It's not how wealthy I am
It's not how pretty I am
It's not about how well-liked I am

It's about the simple things in life
It's about the beauty of this world
of GOD's every creature

It's about how much I do care
I appreciate
all this simplicity .

Happy birthday mommy

Today is my mom's birthday.

Mommy, missing you much.

I also wanna thank God, for His mercy , and His faithfulness.

Just got to know that my mom flew to S'pore to visit my little nephew and my dearest sis, and Dan BIL.

I was so upset the past few weeks, I thought that mom wouldn't have the chance to do it so , as there was some emergency at home.

Then, things turn out so right, but God just like to keep it as a surprise to me!

My aunt took the initiative to invite my mom to fly to Singapore with her, and she assured her that Gran would be fine as other uncles and aunties would take good care of her.

Never cease to believe in the "goodness " in people. It's a lesson that my God teaches me .

Thank God

Thank God that the bump on my face is not so severe after a bee stung me on my cheek when I was riding my bike to school this morning;

Thank God for the rain on my way back home from the clinic;

Thank God for friend that is willing to share the lecture notes when my pendrive is not working;

Thank God for the unanswered call to Jusco;

Thank God for sending me home back safe and sound, though my bike's engine was suddenly turned off (mati engine la ~) twice in the middle of the road, once nearly mati engine on the roundabout;


Thank God that I was able to turn on the engine after 20 trial? 30 trials? not sure la... to kick start my bike.


Thank God for bringing me good news that my friend's mom has started attending church even though she can't understand a word of Tamil and hardly understand English.... ...

Thank God. Thank you Lord.


Amen.

See it?

Have you ever wonder how God take care of us? How He shows his mighty love and care for us?

You might not realize it. As human is to err, to ignore and to forget.Miracle is everywhere.. and happens at anytime.

The little little miracle.. that you might never notice about it..

Lost and found.. Sad and happiness..

Disappointment and hope..

Darkness and Light.

There is a light! A light to lead you..


I see it.

How about you?