“一个人即使没有钱，也可以给人七样东西：

一、颜施，即微笑处事。

二、言施，多说鼓励赞美和安慰的话。

三、心施，敞开心扉对人诚恳。

四、眼施，给人善意的眼光。

五、身施，用行动帮助别人。

六、座施，即谦让座位。

七、房施，有容人之心。

有这七种布施，任何人都将不会困苦，好运一定相随。”
~~陈庐一

夏克約's says...

確定方向，然後在不穩定與不安中成長

"when the silence envelops you, then your soul can sing"
"愛情需要緣份和感動 而幸福則需要勇氣和冒險"
"深深的話，要淺淺的說"(張懸 親愛的)..."但要用力的聽與努力的做"(J)

from Eden
依賴，並非耍賴。自在，也不是隨便。越是親近的人，越容易受傷。
選擇的結果並不可怕，可怕的是選擇之前的恐懼，讓人卻步不前。
想在一個讓自己安穩的懷裡停下來

http://zinlee.blogspot.com/

感同身受. Merci!

我不會飛

What it meant by growing old gracefully together

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想要一个人悠闲去地慢步,
看看生活中曾经错失什么,
沉淀掩藏心里情感,
每个相遇都是美丽.
句号是一个段落的結束,
亦是另一个段落的开始;
自己要努力繼續写下
属于自己的圆舞曲.

Realise ...

Realise that communication is more about what the other person is hearing than the words that I am saying.
Feelings are more important than words.
Connecting is more important than solving.
A real apology , establish a foundation for recouncilation not only in the moment but for the future.

We didn't listen to each other's core fear.

It 's not about winning or losing anymore.

I shall lace my apologies with gentleness.

More importantly, I choose to let it go and trust God to make it up for me.

I am learning to let go of te hurts and pains of the past. Don't let bitterness take root in my life.

I can't do anything about the past, but I can do something about the future.

I am forgiving him for my sake.

Letting go of those wrong's he 's done to me.

Leaving it up to God, take the high road and respond with love.

I don't have to fix everything that happens to me. I don't have to get all upset and try to pay him back for what he did or didn't do. I don't have to get worried or try to manipulate the situation.

I try God to bring justive in His timing, not ours.

God will make my wrongs right.

Amen.

cheer- fish

Disappointment

What do you do if your man disappoint you by not keeping his promises?

Should you wait patiently ? Or don't waste your time on him anymore ?

Even though it is just a small thing, we the women do care.

It is not about the romantic dinner that we miss, not about the latest gadget that you promised to buy but you din cause you spent the money for yourself on other stuff and you din care to tell us about that. YOu made the decision. YOU HAVE DECIDED. That's no point in telling us , right ?

It's a reflection on you.
How many promises you manage to keep ?
How many promises that you made you still remember ?
You, yourself is much more important .
You want woman to be selfless
while you yourself being selfish.

It has been a week that you didn't care to called. It's me that call to ask how 's your day.
You said you would called later. That later is one year later, I guess. You never called then.

Go and have your own fun .
It is not the man of your life that you think will walk with you till the end of your life, but God.

Thank God.

Now when shall I learn my lesson?

The man that I love

A glass of wine, whispering bossa nova,
dancing slowly through the melody
With the man that I love

The man that I love
Is neither a perfect man
The man that I love
Nor a romanticist

Oh when that will happen ?
Oh when you will be ?


The man that I love
Makes me cry
The man that I love
Makes me smile

I love him , He loves me too.

The man that I love
Tell his mother
He wanna leave the town
To visit his love one

The man that I love
Though did not leave the town
Sent sms and telling his love one
That he misses her very much

The man that I love
is neither a handsome chap
nor a wealthy man
The man that I love
is a nobody
but a somebody in my heart

The man that I love
is just a man that I love
and he loves me too.

Tag : Joshua @ Hooi Meng

Sunday Afternoon

Sunday Afternoon - Rachael Yamagata

It's a choice
to stay
It's a dream
& I wanna wake

You have blood on your hands
and I'm feeling faint
And honey
You can't decide

I'm a drug
Ya don't wanna give up
Smoke your cigarettes
Make your love

You poured blood in my heart
and I can't get enough
I'm drowning, drowning
and you can't decide

It's not about geography, or happenstance
you need to fly, & take a chance
You don't need to soar to emptiness
Float on high, & forever dance alone

Your scared, scared, scared
cuz I feel like home

Hear your voice
Knew right away
If you were here
your eyes would say

There is blood on my feet
as I'm walking away
Rivers are red
Its starting to rain

I'm not gonna live for you
or die for you
Won't do anything anymore for you
Cuz you leave me here on the other side
You leave me here on the other side


Not gonna shed one more tear for you
shed one more tear for you
I'm not gonna shed one more tear for you

At least not til Sunday Afternoon
Sunday Afternoon

Leave or Stay
Leave or Stay

What if...

What if ...
What if we have never met ?
What if the flower never blossom?
What if the race has never started ?
What if we never fought before ?
What if you apologize?
What if I din turn off the phone?
What if we still love each other ?
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There is no more what if ...
We know it very well.



What if.... when there is no more what if .

The End of the Chapter...

Cheer Chan
Finally
You stop calling
Stop asking
Stop concerning
Stop quarreling
Stop fighting
Stop texting
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From today onwards,
there is no need, and no haste
to wait for
your call
your sms
to reply
every single word that you say
to replay
every single moment
about you

Thank you for giving me the space
Thank you for letting go
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So now I can stop
Thinking about you
Crying for you
Aching for you
Changing myself
into someone that I hardly know
for you
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... ...
New life
New Air
A Brand new me.
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We can't tell what's the future holding for us
The End . The Beginning ?
Love me not ?
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Maybe it 's not important anymore
At least
I can rest my pain
for the timebeing.
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Thank you for loving me so much
And hurting me so much
Both of us are merely immature beings
Living in their very own little world
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What you wants is not what i want...
What I want is not what you want...

So the next thing to do is ??

So the guy ain't your type...

He isn't your type because he looks fugly?
Or is it because of the way he carries himself ? His thought? His behaviour ? His demeanor?

It is cool to keep a caring friend like him, but wouldn't it be unfair to the guy ?

Hmm...

I guess it is good to make things clear ...
But bear in mind that don't judge a book by its cover.

Honesty may not be the best policy as it hurts sometimes, but it reflects on us.
What comes around goes around.

We can't tell what may come tomorrow, but we know what's now.
Open up to all sort of possibilities, in the future.
But for now, be truthful to yourself.

What do you think if you was in their shoes?

The purest, love and voice

It's a very nice song ..

Your mother...

I was really touched by the catchy tone and the innocent and pure voice of the children singing the song.

It reminds me how I was taught to love my mom when I was a kid, and how my mom sacrifices , and loves me!

Do you still remember when is the last time that you hug your mom? When was the last time that you told her "I love you?"

I don't.

I miss my mom.