记得第一次去大坏狼时 是在南城。所买的都是和猫猫狗狗的书，还有那情情爱爱的手册，指南。 那时刚毕业，刚做工，旧情伤已差不多复原，新感情也悄悄发芽， 也买了书送给了二号男生及老猴子。
第二次去大坏狼时在公司旁的大展厅，买得没那么凶，因为三号男人的紧紧督促，问了我好多次真的需要吗？是甜蜜的看管，也是幸福的一种。 只买了一些理财及工作书，还有给宝贝们的童书。
第三次去大坏狼时，在绿叶会展厅。 时间-午夜十二点。一个人行动。 这次首要任务是给宝宝们买书， 也买了一堆理财，行销的书。没看到我很想要的。这次，我连感情的角落没瞄过一眼。
原来，从这着眼， 能知道自己在这三年里，在乎什么，什么对自己已不打紧了。
好悃，凌晨五时。
闭眼。
感恩今早温温闪闪的金色阳光柔柔的洒在我的脸上，好舒服，让我想起在波兰的晨光。冷冷的天气，温温的晨光，骑着我的老伴，美好的一天的开始。
已好久没感受到这简单的愉悦。找回失去的感觉真好！
感恩不太忙碌的早晨。感恩早上小同事偷偷的拿了朱古力给我。感恩有人载我去见见朋友的出生女儿，感恩这新手妈妈健康快乐。感恩上司让我知道她手术的安排，也感恩她的关心。
感恩傍晚放工时雨还是及时停了一会儿让我来得及去吃晚餐和回家。 感恩我这只睡猪还懂得醒来冲凉洗澡及煲药。
感恩我还来得及看完《我可能不会爱你》终结篇。 我这轻熟女还是有希望啦。 虽然我的李大仁还没出现。
应该也快了吧，因为周立威，亨利，及nic 都出场了，也退场了。
感恩你们的曾经出现，让我更懂得了爱是什么，而我要的，适合我的又是什么。
谢谢你。 天父。
1. 自私是一种本能，无私是一种理智。
2. 自私讲利己，无私讲利人。
3. 自私讲索取，无私讲奉献。
4. 自私的人追求物质生活，无私的人追求精神生活。
5. 自私是烦恼的根源，无私是快乐的源泉。
6. 自私是犯罪的根源，无私是做人的根本。
7. 自私是为恶的，无私是为善的。
8. 自私是一切动物的共性，无私是人的个性。
9. 自私是兽性的表现，无私是人性的体现。
10.自私是人的生理要求，无私是人的社会要求。
11.自私是人的自然属性，无私是人的社会属性。
12.自私是人生存的权力，无私是人的责任与义务。
13.自私是人的生存条件，无私是人的生存作用。
14.自私的人品格低下，无私的人品德高尚。
15.自私的人具有排他性，无私的人具有亲和性。
16.自私的人没朋友（可以有同伙），无私的人朋友遍天
17.自私聚合起来的人是一盘散沙，无私集合起来的人犹
18.自私使人类走向灭亡，无私使人类走向进步。
19.自私的人讲经济效益，无私的人讲社会效益。
20.自私的人讲个人利益，无私的人讲整体利益。
21.自私的人不讲道德，无私的人强调道德。
22.自私的人不讲道理，无私的人讲得清道理。
23.自私的人以力服人，无私的人以理服人。
24.自私的人重技术，无私的人重文化。
25.自私的国家为法治，无私的国家为德治。
26.自私的人有小聪明，无私的人有大智慧。
27.自私的人一切以我为中心（“我”是宇宙的中心），
28.自私的人都搞唯心主义，无私的人都是唯物主义。
29.自私的人都怕死，无私的人都勇敢。
30.自私的人都命短，无私的人多长寿。
31.自私的人都心胸狭窄，无私的人心胸宽广。
32.自私的军队都打败仗，无私的军队也是无敌的。
33.自私的人都是眼前利益，无私的人都是长远利益。
34.自私的人无法解释人的行为规律（人道理)，无私的
35.自私的国家用宗教来迷惑人的思想，无私的国家用哲
36.自私的人做一切事情都不顺利，无私的人则得心应手
37.自私的人心里只有他自己，无私的人心中包藏宇宙。
38.自私的人对金钱的渴望永不满足，无私的人对知识的
39.自私的人仇视社会、敌视他人，无私的人热爱社会、
40.自私是一种病态心理，无私是一种健康的心理。
41.自私的人一般都患老人痴呆，并且心脑血管疾病、肠
42.自私者无快乐，无私者无烦恼。
43.自私的人企图人人为我，无私的人我为人人。
44.自私的人违反了“少数服从多数”的原则，自私就是
45.自私的人颠倒了利己和利他的关系，自私就是把自己
46.自私是做人的小道理，无私是做人的大道理；损人是
小道理必须服从大道理，没道理必须服从有道理。
47.自私的人永远也弄不明白：到底自己是世界的一部分
48.自私是西方人的价值观，无私是中国人的价值观。
49.自私的人只懂得“要”，无私的人最懂得“不”。
50.自私的人凭本能去生活，无私的人凭理智。
51.自私是一种无知，无私是一种智慧。
总之：一句话，人若为己，天诛地灭。
自私与无私的问题其实就是兽性与人性的问题，现在的人普
从上可以看出，西方人喜欢讲人权，这是他们自私心理的表
在私营企业里，工人和老板的关系是永远不可调和的矛盾，
老板姓“私”，所以只顾自己不顾别人。老板把工人看成罪
Selfishness is an instinctive, selfless is a reason.
2. Selfish and say to oneself, talking instead of themselves selflessly.
3. Selfish stresses obtained from stress selfless dedication.... See more
4. Selfish pursuit of material life, selfless people to pursue spiritual life.
5. Selfishness is the root of trouble, selfless is a source of pleasure.
6. Selfishness is the root of crime and selfless is fundamental in life.
7. Selfishness is evil, and selflessness is good.
8. Selfish of all animals in common, is a selfless personality.
9. Selfishness is the animal's performance, the embodiment of selfless human nature.
10. Selfishness is one of the physiological requirements of selfless is the social demands.
11. Selfishness is the natural attributes and selfless is the social attributes.
12. Selfishness is the power of human survival, selfless is the responsibility and obligations.
13. Selfishness is the human condition, and selfless is the role of human survival.
14. Selfish character of the low, selfless man of high moral character.
15. Selfish people have the exclusive, selfless man with an affinity for.
16. Selfish people are not friends (can have associates), selfless man friends all dayNext.
17. Selfish people who gather together is a mess and still selfless people togetherIf an rope.
18. Selfish mankind doomed selfless mankind to progress.
19. Selfish people say economic benefits, social benefits to people who selflessly.
20. Selfish individual interests of people say, selfless people who speak a whole.
21. Selfish morality and selfless people who emphasize moral.
22. Selfish being unreasonable, selfless man spoke clear reason.
23. Selfish people in power to convince the people, selfless man reasoning.
24. Selfish, in serious technical, selfless, in serious culture.
25. Selfish national rule of law, selfless virtue countries.
26. Selfish people have little smart, selfless people who have great wisdom.
27. Selfish people of all self-centered ("I" is the center of the universe),Selfless people as the center of all to-day.
28. Selfish people out of idealism, and selfless people are materialistic.
29. Selfish people are afraid of death, people are brave and selfless.
30. Selfish people life is short, more people live longer and selfless.
31. Selfish people who are narrow-minded, broad-minded and selfless people.
32. Selfish forces are defeated, the army is invincible selfless.
33. Selfish people are immediate, selfless people who are long-term interests.
34. Selfish people can not explain the laws of human behavior (human reason), selflessOthers explained it very clearly.
35. Selfish countries use religion to confuse people's thinking, selfless state with a philosophyGuiding people's thinking and behavior study.
36. Selfish people do not do everything well, selfless man is handy.
37. Selfish in his heart that only his own selfless hearts concealed the universe.
38. Selfish insatiable desire for money, selfless man of knowledgeExplore endless.
39. Selfish people hated society, hostile to others, selfless people who love the community,Caring for others.
40. Selfishness is a kind of morbid psychology, is a healthy psychological selfless.
41. Selfish people who are generally suffering from Alzheimer's and cardiovascular diseases, intestinalGastric diseases, cancer and other closely related with such people, and selfless people with such diseasesIrrelevant.
42. Selfishness are not happy, selfless had no trouble.
43. Selfish attempt for one, selfless man for all.
44. Selfish person who contravenes the "majority" principle, that is selfishTo most people obey their selfless people are the opposite.
45. Selfish self-interest and altruism were reversed relationship, selfishness is to ownAbove the interests of others above self-interest is based, instead of themselves from, is the yin and yangUpside-down performance, selfless man is the yin and yang balance of performance.
46. Selfishness is little truth in life and selfless is the cardinal principles of life; losses areUnreasonable, Lee talent is justified.
Little reason to obey the major principles and unreasonable to obey reasonable.
47. Selfish people who'll never understand: in the end they are part of the worldOr part of the world is their such a simple truth, selfless manIs very clear.
48. Selfishness is the West's values, the values of selflessness is the Chinese people.
49. Selfish people only "to" the most selfless people who know "no."
50. Selfish instinct to live, selfless man with reason.
51. Selfishness is one kind of ignorance is a kind of selfless wisdom.
In short: In short, if a man for himself, Heaven and Earth will destroy.
Selfish and selfless is actually the issue of animality and humanity, who is now generalTimes that "people are selfish or unselfish," confused the issue, and nowPeople's thinking has gradually westernized, that is, that man is selfishThat the selfless, self-sacrifice is hypocritical is to be laughed at,Many books are now out so that this is very bad. In fact, this questionTitle in two thousand years, Confucius has been very clear that Confucius's Benevolence and SexOn the note of human nature is selfless, we can see more and less ancient wisdom, modernPeople, and probably eat more a product of modern technology - the margin of chemicals and poisonsTherefore, right?
Can be seen from the Westerners like to talk about human rights, this is their selfishness tableNow, they ignore the human rights is based on people based on social responsibility.
In the private sector, the relationship between workers and bosses are always irreconcilable contradictionImbalance between yin and yang, is a sick society.
Owner name "private", so for their own interests regardless of others. Crime bosses to workers as, Workers put the boss as the enemy. Workers the tools work the boss, a woman is the boss to enjoy toys, all appliancesNot human, only the boss is the people.
Translated by Ooi Shiuh Choeng