Friday, July 09, 2010

"这都是人的選择,沒有是非对錯,单纯只是选择,但也因为做了這样的选择,他于是失去了一份人生中美好的感情,在他的心中永远少了一份美丽,无比的可惜!"~ 欧杨林

It's about choices, there is no right or wrong, just a matter of choice. But because of the choice he 'd made, he would miss the beauty of the memories and friendship that he could have, what a pity! ~ Auyong Lin

人的
执著有時會令人错過生命中許多美好的可能,那或许是一段友谊,一道风景,不一样的感观,经验. 偶而退出自己所设下的框框,說不定就看见海阔天空,彩虹挂天.

执著, 是因为害怕改变吧! 害怕自己承受不了改变帶来的未知数.

我选择相信,我选择单纯简单.

面对,承受,明白,接受,雨后,天就放晴,生命被滋润,人生更完整.

虽然过程是痛苦,挣扎亦是必然, 蝶儿破茧而出,乃生命必经之路.

相信美好,人总有残缺,那残 缺是美丽人生的一部分.

我选了,你呢?

Friday, June 25, 2010

Note from Chloe :

1. 自私是一种本能,无私是一种理智。

2. 自私讲利己,无私讲利人。

3. 自私讲索取,无私讲奉献。

4. 自私的人追求物质生活,无私的人追求精神生活。

5. 自私是烦恼的根源,无私是快乐的源泉。

6. 自私是犯罪的根源,无私是做人的根本。

7. 自私是为恶的,无私是为善的。

8. 自私是一切动物的共性,无私是人的个性。

9. 自私是兽性的表现,无私是人性的体现。

10.自私是人的生理要求,无私是人的社会要求。

11.自私是人的自然属性,无私是人的社会属性。

12.自私是人生存的权力,无私是人的责任与义务。

13.自私是人的生存条件,无私是人的生存作用。

14.自私的人品格低下,无私的人品德高尚。

15.自私的人具有排他性,无私的人具有亲和性。

16.自私的人没朋友(可以有同伙),无私的人朋友遍天
下。

17.自私聚合起来的人是一盘散沙,无私集合起来的人犹如 一股绳。

18.自私使人类走向灭亡,无私使人类走向进步。

19.自私的人讲经济效益,无私的人讲社会效益。

20.自私的人讲个人利益,无私的人讲整体利益。

21.自私的人不讲道德,无私的人强调道德。

22.自私的人不讲道理,无私的人讲得清道理。

23.自私的人以力服人,无私的人以理服人。

24.自私的人重技术,无私的人重文化。

25.自私的国家为法治,无私的国家为德治。

26.自私的人有小聪明,无私的人有大智慧。

27.自私的人一切以我为中心(“我”是宇宙的中心),无 私的人一切以天为中心。

28.自私的人都搞唯心主义,无私的人都是唯物主义。

29.自私的人都怕死,无私的人都勇敢。

30.自私的人都命短,无私的人多长寿。

31.自私的人都心胸狭窄,无私的人心胸宽广。

32.自私的军队都打败仗,无私的军队也是无敌的。

33.自私的人都是眼前利益,无私的人都是长远利益。

34.自私的人无法解释人的行为规律(人道理),无私的人 则解释得很清楚。

35.自私的国家用宗教来迷惑人的思想,无私的国家用哲学 指导人的思想行为。

36.自私的人做一切事情都不顺利,无私的人则得心应手

37.自私的人心里只有他自己,无私的人心中包藏宇宙。

38.自私的人对金钱的渴望永不满足,无私的人对知识的探 求永无止境。

39.自私的人仇视社会、敌视他人,无私的人热爱社会、关 爱他人。

40.自私是一种病态心理,无私是一种健康的心理。

41.自私的人一般都患老人痴呆,并且心脑血管疾病、肠胃 疾病、癌症等与此类人有密切关系,而无私的人与此类病无关。

42.自私者无快乐,无私者无烦恼。

43.自私的人企图人人为我,无私的人我为人人。

44.自私的人违反了“少数服从多数”的原则,自私就是要 大多数人服从自己,无私的人则相反。

45.自私的人颠倒了利己和利他的关系,自私就是把自己的 利益凌驾于他人之上,就是利己为主,利人为从,是阴阳颠倒的 表现,无私的人则是阴阳平衡的表现。

46.自私是做人的小道理,无私是做人的大道理;损人是没 道理,利人才是有道理。

  小道理必须服从大道理,没道理必须服从有道理。

47.自私的人永远也弄不明白:到底自己是世界的一部分, 还是世界是自己的一部分这么一个简单的道理,无私的人则很清 楚。

48.自私是西方人的价值观,无私是中国人的价值观。

49.自私的人只懂得“要”,无私的人最懂得“不”。

50.自私的人凭本能去生活,无私的人凭理智。

51.自私是一种无知,无私是一种智慧。

总之:一句话,人若为己,天诛地灭。

自私与无私的问题其实就是兽性与人性的问题,现在的人普遍 认为“人是自私的还是无私的”这个问题搞不清楚,现在国 人的思维有逐步西化的倾向,就是说,认为人就是自私的, 认为大公无私、舍己为人都是虚伪的,是要被人嘲笑的,现 在出的不少书也是这么认为,这就很糟糕了。其实这个问题 在2千多年的孔子就已经很清楚了,孔子的仁学和性本善论 就说明了人性是无私的,可见现代人的智慧越来越不及古人 了,大概是吃多了现代科技的产物——化学品和毒药的缘故吧?

从上可以看出,西方人喜欢讲人权,这是他们自私心理的表现, 他们的人权是建立在忽视人的社会责任的基础之上的。

在私营企业里,工人和老板的关系是永远不可调和的矛盾,两 者阴阳失调,是病态的社会。

老板姓“私”,所以只顾自己不顾别人。老板把工人看成罪人, 工人则把老板看成敌人。 工人是老板做工的工具,女人是老板享受的玩具,都是器具不是人,只有老板才是人。


Selfishness is an instinctive, selfless is a reason.

2. Selfish and say to oneself, talking instead of themselves selflessly.

3. Selfish stresses obtained from stress selfless dedication.... See more

4. Selfish pursuit of material life, selfless people to pursue spiritual life.

5. Selfishness is the root of trouble, selfless is a source of pleasure.

6. Selfishness is the root of crime and selfless is fundamental in life.

7. Selfishness is evil, and selflessness is good.

8. Selfish of all animals in common, is a selfless personality.

9. Selfishness is the animal's performance, the embodiment of selfless human nature.

10. Selfishness is one of the physiological requirements of selfless is the social demands.

11. Selfishness is the natural attributes and selfless is the social attributes.

12. Selfishness is the power of human survival, selfless is the responsibility and obligations.

13. Selfishness is the human condition, and selfless is the role of human survival.

14. Selfish character of the low, selfless man of high moral character.

15. Selfish people have the exclusive, selfless man with an affinity for.

16. Selfish people are not friends (can have associates), selfless man friends all dayNext.

17. Selfish people who gather together is a mess and still selfless people togetherIf an rope.

18. Selfish mankind doomed selfless mankind to progress.

19. Selfish people say economic benefits, social benefits to people who selflessly.

20. Selfish individual interests of people say, selfless people who speak a whole.

21. Selfish morality and selfless people who emphasize moral.

22. Selfish being unreasonable, selfless man spoke clear reason.

23. Selfish people in power to convince the people, selfless man reasoning.

24. Selfish, in serious technical, selfless, in serious culture.

25. Selfish national rule of law, selfless virtue countries.

26. Selfish people have little smart, selfless people who have great wisdom.

27. Selfish people of all self-centered ("I" is the center of the universe),Selfless people as the center of all to-day.

28. Selfish people out of idealism, and selfless people are materialistic.

29. Selfish people are afraid of death, people are brave and selfless.

30. Selfish people life is short, more people live longer and selfless.

31. Selfish people who are narrow-minded, broad-minded and selfless people.

32. Selfish forces are defeated, the army is invincible selfless.

33. Selfish people are immediate, selfless people who are long-term interests.

34. Selfish people can not explain the laws of human behavior (human reason), selflessOthers explained it very clearly.

35. Selfish countries use religion to confuse people's thinking, selfless state with a philosophyGuiding people's thinking and behavior study.

36. Selfish people do not do everything well, selfless man is handy.

37. Selfish in his heart that only his own selfless hearts concealed the universe.

38. Selfish insatiable desire for money, selfless man of knowledgeExplore endless.

39. Selfish people hated society, hostile to others, selfless people who love the community,Caring for others.

40. Selfishness is a kind of morbid psychology, is a healthy psychological selfless.

41. Selfish people who are generally suffering from Alzheimer's and cardiovascular diseases, intestinalGastric diseases, cancer and other closely related with such people, and selfless people with such diseasesIrrelevant.

42. Selfishness are not happy, selfless had no trouble.

43. Selfish attempt for one, selfless man for all.

44. Selfish person who contravenes the "majority" principle, that is selfishTo most people obey their selfless people are the opposite.

45. Selfish self-interest and altruism were reversed relationship, selfishness is to ownAbove the interests of others above self-interest is based, instead of themselves from, is the yin and yangUpside-down performance, selfless man is the yin and yang balance of performance.

46. Selfishness is little truth in life and selfless is the cardinal principles of life; losses areUnreasonable, Lee talent is justified.

  Little reason to obey the major principles and unreasonable to obey reasonable.

47. Selfish people who'll never understand: in the end they are part of the worldOr part of the world is their such a simple truth, selfless manIs very clear.

48. Selfishness is the West's values, the values of selflessness is the Chinese people.

49. Selfish people only "to" the most selfless people who know "no."

50. Selfish instinct to live, selfless man with reason.

51. Selfishness is one kind of ignorance is a kind of selfless wisdom.

In short: In short, if a man for himself, Heaven and Earth will destroy.

Selfish and selfless is actually the issue of animality and humanity, who is now generalTimes that "people are selfish or unselfish," confused the issue, and nowPeople's thinking has gradually westernized, that is, that man is selfishThat the selfless, self-sacrifice is hypocritical is to be laughed at,Many books are now out so that this is very bad. In fact, this questionTitle in two thousand years, Confucius has been very clear that Confucius's Benevolence and SexOn the note of human nature is selfless, we can see more and less ancient wisdom, modernPeople, and probably eat more a product of modern technology - the margin of chemicals and poisonsTherefore, right?

Can be seen from the Westerners like to talk about human rights, this is their selfishness tableNow, they ignore the human rights is based on people based on social responsibility.

In the private sector, the relationship between workers and bosses are always irreconcilable contradictionImbalance between yin and yang, is a sick society.

Owner name "private", so for their own interests regardless of others. Crime bosses to workers as, Workers put the boss as the enemy. Workers the tools work the boss, a woman is the boss to enjoy toys, all appliancesNot human, only the boss is the people.

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星雲大師有一位徒弟,台大畢業後,到夏威夷讀碩士,
又到耶魯讀博士,花了好多年的時間,
終於得到博士,非常歡喜。


有一天他回來,對星雲說:
「師父,我現在得到博士學位了,以後要再學習什麼呢?」
星雲說:「學習人。」
學習做人是一輩子的事,沒有辦法畢業的。
星雲覺得人生,不管是士農工商、各種人等,
只要學習就有進步,今天要跟大家分享需要學習的事。


第一、「學習認錯」。
人常常不肯認錯,凡事都說是別人的錯,
認為自己才是對的,其實不認錯就是一個錯。
認錯的對象可以是父母、朋友、社會大眾、佛祖,
甚至向兒女或是對我不好的人認錯,
自己不但不會少了什麼,反而顯得你有度量。
學習認錯是美好的,是一個大修行。

第二、「學習柔和」。
人的牙齒是硬的,舌頭是軟的,到了人生的最後,
牙齒都掉光了,舌頭卻不會掉,所以要柔軟,
人生才能長久,硬反而吃虧。
心地柔軟了,是修行最大的進步。
一般形容執著的人說,你的心、你的性格很冷、很硬,
像鋼鐵一樣。
如果我們像禪門說的調息、調身、調心,
慢慢調伏像野馬、像猴子的這顆心,令它柔軟,
人生才能活得更快樂、更長久。

第三、「學習生忍」。
這世間就是忍一口氣,風平浪靜,退一步海闊天空;
忍,萬事都能消除。忍就是會處理、 會化解,
用智慧、能力讓大事化小、小事化無。
各位要生活、要生存、要生命,有了忍,
可以認清世間的好壞、善惡、是非,甚至接受它。

第四、「學習溝通」。
缺乏溝通,就會產生是非、爭執與誤會。
現在中國大陸、香港和台灣,
兩岸三地最重要的就是溝通,
相互了解、相互體諒、相互幫助,
大家都是龍兄虎弟,互相爭執、不溝通怎麼能和平呢?

第五、「學習放下」。
人生像一只皮箱,需要用的時候提起,
不用的時就把它放下,應放下的時候,卻不放下,
就像拖著沉重的行李,無法自在。
人生的歲月有限,認錯、尊重、包容才能讓人接受,
放下才自在啊!

第六、「學習感動」。
我們看到人家得好處,要歡喜;
看到好人好事,要能感動。
感動是一個愛心、菩薩心、菩提心,
在我幾十年的歲月裡,有許多事情、語言感動了我,
所以我也很努力的想辦法讓別人感動。

第七、「學習生存」。
為了生存,我要維護身體健康,
身體健康不但對自己有利,也讓朋友、家人放心,
所以也是孝親的行為。

Sunday, May 09, 2010

Started to understand your feelings after meeting up a few friends who are working in medical lines.
Stress and lots of work. Exhausted.

At the end of the day, you just feel like staying home and get some rest.
Let the brain and body take a good rest.

Just need a rest .

.....................................................................................................................................................................

Back to hometown.

Thought that running away, the further it is , maybe it is easier to forget about you. And let you go.

Suprisingly, when I am back to Penang, I found peace in my mind.

This is the place where I can rest my heart and my soul.
Maybe I should come back.

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realised that I really need to take at least 1 month to rest my soul, my mind and my body.
5 years. 8 months. 2 years.

never have time to rest and really think about what I really want.
But the picture is getting closer and closer.
Proverbs 31: 10

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I will do all the things I wanted to do for you. Those might not be the things that you want. But I still hope that it will bring you lots of joy and happiness. I do not expect anything from you right now. Not at all. I do it, not because I want to get something in return from you, not to get your attention, not to prove to you anything. I just wanna be myself . Be brave enough to be myself. I do what I wanna do. Then, I will focus on my career and my walk with our Heavenly Father.

Though there is no signs, nothing. Faith keeps me alive.

God will lead me and guide me. Our God turns grieve to joy. There shall be joy and peace.
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Do I still love you ? I guess yes. But this time the feelings ... different from what I felt last time. Maybe I am tired. Maybe I just wanna let go. But I am not sure. So I ask God.

All I wanna do is to be an obedient child of our Father.

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Those questions that were lingering in my head, knowing the answers would be good. But putting more effort in pushing you through it, not anymore. I am exhausted by myself.

What's most important ? God knows my heart.

He always teaches me , and shows me , letting me to know who I really am.

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Getting to understand more and more of you. Those questions that you asked me .
The answer to the sweetest question you 've ever asked ? Yes.

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Tuesday, April 06, 2010

想看<分手說愛你>.

6月中.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

I had a nightmare last night.

But I can't call you.

I can no longer call you

In the middle of the night

Just to tell you that I got a night mare

and I am afraid

Will you ever pick up the phone

Start praying for me

Singing lullaby to me

Until I fall asleep again?

In the middle of the night,

I can't call you

Anymore.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

“一个人即使没有钱,也可以给人七样东西:

一、颜施,即微笑处事。

二、言施,多说鼓励赞美和安慰的话。

三、心施,敞开心扉对人诚恳。

四、眼施,给人善意的眼光。

五、身施,用行动帮助别人。

六、座施,即谦让座位。

七、房施,有容人之心。

有这七种布施,任何人都将不会困苦,好运一定相随。”
~~陈庐一

夏克約's says...

確定方向,然後在不穩定與不安中成長

"when the silence envelops you, then your soul can sing"
"愛情需要緣份和感動 而幸福則需要勇氣和冒險"
"深深的話,要淺淺的說"(張懸 親愛的)..."但要用力的聽與努力的做"(J)

from Eden
依賴,並非耍賴。自在,也不是隨便。越是親近的人,越容易受傷。
選擇的結果並不可怕,可怕的是選擇之前的恐懼,讓人卻步不前。
想在一個讓自己安穩的懷裡停下來

http://zinlee.blogspot.com/

感同身受. Merci!

我不會飛

原谅

O Lord, pls guard my heart and my mouth from evil.

I shall not dwell in the past.

Shall not speak and see from the angle of my narrow window.

Shall think if whatever I say is going to give a negative impact to others before I speak.

原谅 =还原过去美好的一切,谅解过去发生的一切.

以后只提你的好, 不提其他的.

只感谢, 不埋怨.

Friday, February 26, 2010

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Random ..

Must protect
this little heart of mine.
Little heart
needs protection.

Random thoughts

Just part and parcel of faded connections

If only I can pack these memories into a parcel

and send them back to you

or send it away from myself

Life would have been easier.

...................................................

Start working ...
If I take this responsibility as a job,
maybe I will do it better.

So now , my job = study well.

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I think it is too much.
Time to stop mourning.
Time to stop complaining
to others
What is left ?
It's just me .

Just me and myself .
But stretching out is easier .
It's easier to have someone else to pull me up when I am falling down.
I am not strong enough. Not yet.
Thought that I am ok.
No I am not .
Maybe it is due to
stress adaptation.
Hey ya.... anyone willing to pull me out of this ?

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Maybe I should start another post ... Maybe it should be written on the layout.
A reminder ...
things that make me feel happy.

I wanna be happy.
I shall be happy.
I will be happy.

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Sunday, February 14, 2010

I am angry... angry , and upset.

Don't you know that I hate it when you do this on my laptop?

Don't you know that we all hate it when you do it ?

Wake up.

Friday, February 05, 2010

Random

My dad's pet CoolCool just passed away. Hit by car.

He cried.

My sis told me.

I got a feeling that I need to call back home but my sis asked me not now.

the first time that I saw my dad crying -- on my granny's funeral.

Crying is good for him.

Found out that there is a certain time I will get particularly sentimental and I will miss J terribly.

I guess this is not something big , but it means something to me and now I find no one that I can talk about it .

I can randomly call any friend of mine just to talk about it. But who would like to listen about it ? I mean it is not something very important to them.

I wonder if J ever had a moment like this before. I never saw J crying though.

I am alone in my rented house.

Roomie has gone back to her hometown.

We're having another empty room, still waiting for the next tenant.

Another housemate decided not to go to concert tonight which earlier she asked me to accompany her.

I have got tonnes of revision to be done but I am just not in the mood.

I guess blogging is another alternative when you find that there is no one to talk to.

I guess that I am being emo, today.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Come to Jesus - Chris Rice



A song that can calm my mind and ease my pain.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

I think....

I shall not stay at home and study ...

Since at home x focus

Especially from 12-3 pm...

Maybe it's because of the weather ...

Maybe I should go to Fac and study...

Maybe I should go to Mc D ...

Maybe I should go to some other place...

Lord, I need to focus.. Help me!!!!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

只許州官放火 --- 不許百姓点灯 The story

Zhi3 xu3 zhou1 guan1 fan4 hua3, bu4xu3bai3xing4dian3deng1.

From nciku note.

During the Song dynasty there was a magistrate named Tian Deng who resented people calling or writing his name. He even ordered them to avoid using any adaptation of the word "deng" (this word has the same pronunciation with another "deng", meaning lamp). Whenever someone did so, he became extremely angry; he ended up lashing many minor officials. Therefore, all the people in the state decided to call a lamp (deng), fire. On the Lantern Festival, the lamps were on for three days as celebration, and this was done in Tian's state as well. The local government would put out an official notice to inform every family to make preparations for the festival. To avoid using the word lamp, his followers wrote this sentence on these notices, "According to custom the fire would be set for three days in our state." When others read the notices, they did not know whether to laugh or to cry and be afraid.

只許州官放火 --- 不許百姓点灯

只許州官放火 --- 不許百姓点灯

http://www.sinchew.com.my/node/145825?tid=1

I remember that when I was in my first year, Tamadun Islam is a compulsory course. If this is the case, then how can we study Tamadun Islam without using those words since we are forbidden to "use them "?

Once again, this is only restricted to certain state. So there is no excuse for my juniors not to study Tamadun Islam ..

Time for reflection, Time to ponder, a time to pray for our nation and leader.
We need a rightous , and wise leader.

10 more weeks

10 weeks to go...

Started my rotation

Life is getting really busy

Time is not enough.

But play and rest time shouldn't be ignored.

New Year Resolution :
Be nottier, happier, more relaxed, and more efficient in time management.
Be more grateful , more careful , more considerate, less emotional.
Nottier x = bad
Just a little bit more cheeky , and loosen myself and others .

Amen.